Friday, March 23, 2012

It's Official...

...I'm moving back to the Chuck!!!

I've been holding this in since Wednesday but can't hold back any longer without sharing my news - so here it is.

Back in January, I brought up a teleworking (working from home) idea to my company.  After a couple of months, I finally got my chance to create a teleworking proposal and present it to my new manager and the president of our company.  

I spent an entire weekend creating a 10 page proposal of information from concerns and benefits, costs, and a detailed timeline for this proposal.  I presented it to the decision makers and after several hours of discussion, they agreed to a trial period to see if the move will in fact benefit the agency.

I've said this before, but I have to reiterate it, I work for some of the most compassionate and trusting people I know.  I love my job, and I love Charleston - and they're giving me an opportunity of a lifetime to combine the two things I love the most.  I cannot be more excited and thankful for having the support from them in following what my heart tells me is the place I need to be.  I'm truly blessed, and this is the happiest I have been in a long time.

So...if everything goes as planned (fingers crossed) I'll be back in the Lowcountry by July!

I'm currently working with an amazing realtor in Mt. Pleasant - yep, I'm going to buy a house!  I've wanted to do this for so long, but couldn't mentally make myself do it in the place I currently live.  I know the Lowcountry is where I belong, so I'm going to plant myself there.

This is a HUGE life changing move for me - and I'm beyond excited to be back in the place I love the most with the people that keep me going - my family.  I will miss my friends in the Charlotte area, but I bet y'all won't mind having a place to stay by the coast! :)

And so begins the next chapter of this girl's life...I'm moving back bi&#hes!

Cheers Y'all!

Monday, March 12, 2012

The Bachelor - Finale

I am mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted tonight.  I cannot guarantee that this blog of probably the most important night this season will be any good at all.  At least I still have my honesty.

Lindzy met Ben's family and no red flags from the overprotective sister.  But apparently Julia has some serious concerns with Courtney already.  Very comfortable meeting of the family.

Courtney pretty much starts out her whole conversation with Ben's Mom and sister by talking about how the rest of the house didn't like her.  Then she proceeds to LIE to Ben's sister and say that she tried to get to know the girls in the house since day one.  They should totally let the families of the Bachelor/ette see video from the season - or better yet, just let them watch the "Women/Men Tell All" episode.  Somehow, Courtney makes Ben sister think she's a nice person...she's an ACTRESS and model...come on people!


Ben's family are Team Courtney...ugh.


Ben and Lindzy go skiing in the Swiss Alps on their date.  On the way up, on their private gondola, the damn thing stops...stops.  Lindzy is like "ohh this is so special"...THIS Lindsey would be like "OMG, OMG, get me off this thing!".  I don't ever have much to say about Ben and Lindzy's time together...mostly, because it's normal.  She's normal.  

On Courtney and Ben's date she's sort of back to her bitchy self - no one to impress (family) I suppose.  Courtney does say something that caught my attention: "It's bitter sweet - since I've had so much fun, but it's ending".  Ummm...shouldn't you be saying it's the beginning?   Yea, thought so.  Courtney gives Ben a gift - a scrap book.  Isn't that what like everyone gives the Bachelor/Bachelorette?  How original.

In true Bachelor fashion, he has to break someone's heart first...and it's Lindzy...shocker.

Ben, Ben, Ben...I knew this was coming, but it's so much more horrible to watch you break a good girl's heart.  Really, how could you imagine that "I'm in love with someone else" would be okay to say to a girl you're breaking up with?  LIE dude!  The poor girl is speechless - you dummy!

Lindzy goes out with class and humor "If things don't work out, call me" - Love that girl!

Dear Courtney, why the hell would you wear full length gloves if you anticipate a ring going on your finger?  Seriously?

I just found myself making a really disgusting face this entire part of the episode.  Barf.

"Oh my gosh, this ring is nice"...seriously, that's who you just proposed to.

After the Final Rose comes on next, and I'm not sure I'll be able to stay awake for it...but the DVR is set.

Night Y'all!

Monday, March 5, 2012

The Bachelor - The Women Tell All

My FAVORITE night of every season: The Women Tell All episode!  A night when we get to hear all the women bitch about each other!

Apparently ABC can't fill up a full two hour block with women bitching, so they show us what happens at the Bachelor/Bachelorette reunion party in Vegas.  Oh man - what a party!  So many broken hearts, pheromones and booze in one room - they should film that.  Oh, wait...they do...Bachelor Pad!  Yesss!  Almost forgot about that one!

First on the chopping block, Blakeley: apparently she was a bully.  Boo freaking hoo!

Brittany says that the reason she left was because she wasn't attracted to Ben.  Kudos to you ma'am - thanks for being honest, now.

Samantha needs to shut up!  Oh my gosh...someone slap a muzzle on this girl!

Shawntel shows up again...whoopdie doo.  Seriously girl, nobody even remembers you showing up on the show this season...you were there for like 10 minutes.  But in all honesty, the things the girls said about her in their confession sessions were harsh.  Emily makes a good point saying that the girls wouldn't have said mean things about her if they didn't think she was a threat...very true. 

Emily is in the hot seat with Chris, and the majority of the conversation is about Courtney and how terrible of a person she is.  Emily is so well versed in the language of love and heartbreak - she should write a book.  Just sayin...I'd read it.

Nikki is up next...blah blah blah...broke my heart...blah blah blah...let my guard down...blah blah blah...

Now my girl Kacie B. is in the hot seat.  No drama with this girl, as always...just talks about her experience on the show.


Oh man, it's time for Crazy Courtney!  Chris gives the chicken coop time to rant about Courtney before she comes out to give her side.  No new stuff here - same feelings across the board (Casey S. being the exception).  When Courtney comes out she says that she has regrets and that she came into the whole thing not wanting to have any confrontation.  Hmmm...interesting.


After 15 solid minutes of taking jab after jab, Courtney proves that she's not a robot and starts to make herself cry.  Pretty sad that after she apologizes to the girls, they still get her off the stage, in a car and off the property as fast as they can!  Haha!


Finally, we get to see Ben and have the ladies punch him in the face with questions.  Ben says "welcome to my nightmare"...nuff said.  These girls are making Ben answer questions about why they weren't picked and why they were sent home - poor guy!  


Best part of show: out takes.

Now all we have to do is wait until next week and keep our fingers crossed that he picks Lindzy!





 

Veggie Lasagna

I stayed home from work to try and get some rest, and I did...but I also learned three very important things: 
1.) Daytime television sucks.
2.) If I am cooking, my mind is not concentrating on what's wrong with my body.
3.) Dr. Oz will make you believe that anything and everything will give you cancer.

So, in my attempt to relive cabin fever I trucked it to EarthFare to pick up some veggies for the week.  $40 later, I'm tired again and headed home to make something delicious that will occupy some of my day.

A few months back, my friend Stacy came up to visit me.  She made an organic "Spaghetti Stew" with all organic veggies and grass fed beef.  It was delicious.  SO I took her idea and elaborated a little (including removing the meat)...thus, Veggie Lasagna.

Basically you can make this with whatever kind of veggies you like.  I chose: squash, zucchini, carrots, onions, jalapeno peppers, red peppers, yellow peppers, orange peppers, mushrooms, garlic and kale.  
rabbit food.
I sauteed each of the bowls of veggies individually with olive oil, sea salt and pepper then added them all (except the kale) to a huge stock pot with two jars of organic marinara sauce.
forgot to photograph both of them...
 Simmer for about an hour, then add the kale for an additional 15 minutes.
this smells delicious.
This amount of sauce will make a HUGE lasagna, so I took four servings out of it and packaged it in individual servings and tossed them in the freezer.  Easy meal: thaw and pour over whole wheat pasta!


Speaking of whole wheat pasta, I boiled a package of lasagna noodles til they were almost al dente.  Then started building my lasagna.


Layer noodles, veggie sauce, then cheese (used shredded mozzarella cheese)...then repeat.  I may or may not have put red pepper flakes in between layers...I like it spicy!
layers of deliciousness.   

Bake for 30-45 minutes (depending on pan size)....and...
ta da!
 Needless to say, more than 3/4 of this will be frozen for later...but the piece I had for din din was yummy!


Cheers y'all!




 

 

Sunday, March 4, 2012

I'm Not Dying...

A lot of people are texting and calling to ask if everything is okay - so I figured the best way to handle all these calls and texts is to just post it here.

On occasion, I get dizzy - most of the time it's when my blood sugar is low...eat a candy bar, and I'm good. I was diagnosed with hypoglycemia back in high school, and have learned to keep my blood sugar where it needs to be.  Sometimes I fail at remembering to eat if I'm busy, or if I just don't get a chance to eat when I normally do.  But, Friday night was a totally different story.  

I had been eating all day and had just finished a venti iced coffee around 6:00.  So, when I had the dizziness I got a little concerned.  It was a spell of dizziness that I had never felt.  The room was spinning around whatever I was focusing on, and standing up made it worse.  I layed down in bed around 9:30 and called Chelcie to basically figure out what the hell was going on and see if I needed to go to the ER.  We decided that I should try and close my eyes and sleep for a little bit to see if it went away.  Chelcie called me back an hour later and in my sleepiness I'm guessing I mumbled that I was fine and sleeping.  

The rest of the night I was completely restless.  I would sleep for an hour and wake up with the room spinning.  By the way, I had NOTHING to drink all day/night.  I tried everything to make it stop - nothing worked.  And now, it felt like someone was pulling my hair constantly - my scalp was tight feeling.  Not normal.  I watch WAY too many medical shows - and upon feeling this, I diagnosed myself with a brain aneurism...comforting, right?

I finally just got up at 7:30 the next morning with the same symptoms as the night before.  I texted Chelcie and asked if she thought I should go to the ER...she said "yes".  So, I called my mom - natural instinct when you're in pain - and told her what was going on.  She told me she was getting in the car and would be here as soon as she could and to get someone to take me to the ER - obviously I couldn't drive.  Thankfully, Brooke and Jamey responded super fast and the next thing I knew, Jamey was at my door ready to drive me to the ER.  I will never be able to thank them enough!  

So, I have been seeing the billboards all over town for Piedmont Medical Center that you can actually check ER wait times online and even check in online...so I did.  Once I got there, I sat for no more than 5 minutes before I was taken to triage and had my vitals checked.  Moved down to the next room where I probably signed my first born child away to PMC, and then I was taken back to my room.  This all happened within 30 minutes of arriving to the hospital...I was impressed.  I've sat in that same ER waiting room with a boyfriend 6 years ago with a dislocated shoulder for 3 hours with nothing offered to us other than "we can give him some asprin".  So, PMC has obviously stepped up their game.

Within 15 minutes, Dr. Rumsey came in to ask questions and let me know what they had planned on doing.  They were going to do an EKG, CT and blood work.  Ten minutes later, a nurse was drawing 8 vials of blood from my shaking arm (I REALLY hate needles) while another nurse was giving me Meclizine for the dizziness.  By the way, Meclizine is fan-freaking-tastic.

Next thing I know, a REALLY hot doctor was wheeling me back to the CT room - all I could think of was "dammit, I didn't even brush my hair this morning".  Anyway, after being scanned, I was wheeled back to my room where the EKG guy was waiting...seriously, I was never left alone for more than 10 minutes the entire time I was there.  

After the EKG, I called my mom and dad and let Jamey know that he could leave whenever he needed to since my mom was about an hour away.  Just knowing my mom was on her way was more comforting than anything...and the meds were kicking in full time now and I really didn't care much about anything.

Dr. Rumsey came in and let me know they were finishing up with my tests and that I could go sit in the observation room - which is basically a room full of really comfy chairs and a huge TV...oh, and a bunch of other sick people.

About 30 minutes later, Dr. Rumsey came in and told me that all my test came back negative and that everything on the CT looked fine.  He said that he thought I suffer from vertigo, and that some kind of virus (or the sinus infection I just "got over") may have triggered the big episode of dizziness.  He prescribed me the same meds he gave me while in the ER (Meclizine) and told me he wanted me to go see a neurologist as soon as possible.

I called my mom and dad to let them know I wasn't dying and then sat for the next hour with the crazies in the observation room while my mom hauled ass to Rock Hill.  Thankfully she got there before any more sick crazies filled up the room.

No matter how old you are, there's nothing like having your mother there with you to take care of you when you are sick, in pain, or scared...in which I was all of the above.

She took me home after getting my script filled and cooked me shrimp Alfredo and served me Powerade after Powerade.  After eating and drinking, I started feeling a little better - but still a little wobbly when I stood up.

Mom went to the grocery store and got us stuff for dinner and of course stocked up my pantry while she was at it.  After dinner, I fell asleep - given that I had not slept the night before, I was super tired.

When I woke up this morning and my mom was there, it was like walking in the living room on Christmas morning as a kid.  She may not have done anything but feed me and bring me drinks, but her presence alone made me feel so much better.

I'm going to try and get an appointment at the neurologist tomorrow, hoping they will take me in asap given my ER visit.  Hopefully I'll have answers soon as to why I have these bouts of dizziness and vertigo, and even more importantly, how to treat them.

My mom has left, and I only cried a little (lot) when she was driving away.  I'm ok and don't need anyone here with me, but that doesn't mean I don't want someone with me.

So that's my not so super Saturday.

Friday, March 2, 2012

The Real World - IOP

You want to know what you can learn from putting 6 best friends from high school in a beach house with a ridiculous amount of alcohol and no cable television for three days?  A lot.

Things I learned from "The Real World - Isle of Palms":

When there's no cable television, you're forced to spend an hour trying to watch the Heat game on the internet.  When you fail, you drink instead.

Large family style dinner tables make for a really fantastic beer pong table.
Din Din
If you ask your mother to make a lasagna for 7 people, she will make it for 70.  Thus, you will hate lasagna after day 2.
seriously?
Just because YOU cannot hear what someone is saying outside the door of the "totally friggin' soundproof" bathroom, does not mean that the people on the floor below the "totally friggin' soundproof" bathroom cannot hear either.

If I didn't know us, I'd hate us.

You cannot say "You guys know how to post videos to Facebook" enough to piss people off.

Halloween decorations that are "cute" at Halloween are just down right terrifying in February.
told you...
Coffee is good.

The best test for a new party dress: see if you can "get low".

Citadel Mall is freaking scary.  Period.

Laura's phone hated itself so much it tried to commit suicide in the pedicure spa.

Laura's phone is indestructible.

All it takes is one person to crack the first beer to start the shenanigans.

You can play card games all night and never have an argument - as soon as Catchphrase is cranked up all Hell breaks loose.

Apparently if you don't like the word, you can push "next" until the buzzer goes off.

Michael Jackson played for the Bulls.  Huh?

Magnum bottles of wine are for sharing.  Seriously.

1 Magnum bottle of wine + Lindsey = drunk crying on the porch (while people come in and out just to get another beer from the cooler)

If you clean up the night before mess before you realize what happened, you never have to remember what happened.

The best cure for a wine hangover: running on the beach in 45 degree weather.

Mimosas can be drank at any point in the day...it's not technically "drinking".

The movie "The Heathers" was a LOT cooler in the 90's...however, apparently every single LT catchphrase came from this movie.

Thank goodness for Netflix and WiFi - you saved us for a few hours.

An afternoon walk to the marina to drool over boats none of us will ever afford is just enough to make everyone start drinking...again.
ahhh...the marina.
There is such a thing as a power nap.

Cold showers suck.

It's a lot more fun to get ready in a bathroom suite with 6 of your best friends...yea, it was only weird for a minute.

Your friends will tell you a dress looks good on...your BEST friends tell you the dress will help you find a husband!

You can go two days without taking but three photos, but as soon as everyone is fancy and dressed up - you take 30.
oh you fancy now!
Oh my gosh...the reason we're here is because we're going to our 10 year class reunion.

I'm really tall...
this is why I never wear heels...
Class reunions should happen more often than they do.

The Cupid Shuffle will bring everyone together.  The Electric Slide will make everyone leave the dance floor and awkwardly stare at the DJ.

It's okay to recite 4H songs and prayers while partially drunk.

After the party there's the after-party.  After that, everyone is really drunk.

Snacking on raw veggies after a night of drinking is lame.

There comes a point in the night when you go from "I'm having fun" to "I don't care" - at this point you should be removed from people who are not having fun and care.

If you find yourself saying "Yall wanna watch Twilight" at 3:00 am, you've officially run out of better things to do.

You know you're getting old when you request a late check out because "there's no way we'll be up before 10am on Sunday"...yet, you're already home by 10:15am.

The Real World...Isle of Palms